plain&simple wrote:
Anyway girl and all , its apparent how much it bugs to see them arab laies or muslim ones so obedient and thinking that this is a way to go to heaven or whatever , thats being the nothing they r sometimes ... .
well have a some bad news for u ... heaven is harder to acheive than that

and not saying its their fault though . still its the way the society had taught them to be.
wana here the lots u wana say ...
I think that it is learned (women roles, being obdient etc etc)
and yes it bugs me, but I dont face that same situation since I always get to bug them back, maybe cause I'm "rude" sometimes and can't accept be discriminated. But many women do not say a thing. And who's fault is this? womans? partly yes, but the major part is because of society! Society is ruled by man. alright we get the point. NO i am not accusing men
I am saying, men developed by time a great difference between his demands and ignored woman demands. And men developed by time a large space of "unknowledge" between him and woman. Today men do not understand women, escpecially in the arabic world. and this is because of this large space between the two genders.
By openminded/freedom I do not mean "no limits" or "iba7iya" or "in7ilal" I simply mean RESPONSIBILITY.
I think that if man change his opinion about woman, stops thinking of her a sex symbol, stops thinking she is silly/not responsible enough, stops to limiting her from developing, and evaluating her thoughts/opinions as useful in society. Then our societal norms will change dramatically...
notice that a small start is never enough but it is still an enormous change from the existing norms and a good push forward towards a better healthier developed and effective society :wink:
opinions? plain.. the lots was partly mentioned in the other subject..

still got more to say.. but I am sure you got lots to say too *and hey also and all you others reading this*
take some time.. write something.. discussion builds bridges between people minds :wink:
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What about this huh!!